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1·It's probably true that if someone hurts you, 'they should have known better, Matt says. But the fact is we are all human and we mess things up.

“我们或许可以这么想，如果有人伤害到你，‘他应该知道那是不对的’”麦特说，“但事实是我们都是人，而我们都会把事情搞砸。”

2·You'll stop thinking of God as someone looking down from heaven, ready to yell, Gotcha! anytime you mess up.

如同某人从天空往下看时，你将不会想起上帝，准备着大声喊叫吧，“Gotcha”，在你陷入困境的任何时候。

3·It's probably true that if someone hurts you, they should have known better, Matt says, but the fact is we are all human and we mess things up.

“如果有人伤害了你，或许让他们知道这个情况会更好些，”麦特说，“但事实上，我们都是普通人，通常会把事情搞砸。”

4·It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up.

它打开你的胸腔打开你的心房，坠入爱河意味着别人可以钻进你的心里，把你的心绪搅得乱糟糟。

5·This is perhaps one of the cruelest things one can do. When you mess up, the last thing you want is for someone not only to bring it to your attention, but to ridicule you on top of that.

这可能是最残忍的一件事情， 当你陷入困境，你最不愿看到的事是有人不仅那壶不开提那壶，而且嘲弄你个没完。

6·When someone invites you to a wedding or dinner party, always send the RSVP. Not doing so can mess up the host's planning.

当别人邀请你参加婚礼或者晚宴时，一定要回复对方的邀请函，否则很容易打乱主办人的计划。

7·Someone had to clean up your mess.

有人得收拾你的烂摊子。

8·Someone had to clean up you mess.

总得有人帮你收拾残局。